Men are statistically less likely to seek help for mental health conditions, less likely to receive diagnoses for anxiety disorders, and more likely to present psychological distress through externalising behaviours — anger, substance use, withdrawal — rather than speaking about it directly.

This is not because men experience less anxiety. Research suggests the gap in experience is narrow. The gap in disclosure is vast.

The cultural programming around masculinity and emotional expression runs deep. Vulnerability is often coded as weakness. Asking for help is frequently read as failure.

But panic attacks do not respect cultural programming. They arrive uninvited in the bodies of men who have spent years believing that strength means not feeling this.

Talking — to a friend, a doctor, a therapist — is not weakness. It is, in fact, the hardest and most courageous form of strength available.